Short-Tempered Wife, a Bag full of Nails and Hammer
A husband, fed up with his short-tempered wife, gave her a bag full of nails and said, "Whenever you get angry, take out a nail from the bag and hammer it into the fence!"
The next day, as soon as the wife got angry, she hammered a nail into the fence wall. She continued to do this process.
Slowly she started to understand that it is better to control her anger than to waste effort in hammering nails and gradually the number of nails she hammered decreased.
There came a day when the wife did not hammer even a single nail in the day.
She happily told this to her husband. He was very happy and said, "The day you feel that you did not get angry even once, take out one nail from the hammered nails."
The wife started doing the same. There came a day when there was not a single nail left in the fence. She happily told this to her husband.
The husband took the wife to the barn and showed her the nail holes and asked, "Can you fill these holes?"
The wife said, "No"
The husband put his hand on her shoulder and said, "Now you understand, the harsh words spoken by you in anger make such holes in the heart of others that you can never compensate for in the future!"
Message: Whenever you get angry, think whether you are also going to put a nail in someone's heart
Nowadays people say such things that others feel bad and the other person does not know, so think before saying anything
You don't know what people say and go away, then later you come to know that the other person felt bad, then you think what did I say
Reduce your anger, even if you get angry, do not do such a thing that you may have to face trouble or be embarrassed later
Forget all the Reasons Why something
Won't Work.
You just have to find one Good Reason
Why it Will Work.
เคเคจ เคธเคญी เคाเคฐเคฃों เคो เคญूเคฒ เคाเคं เคि เคोเค เคाเคฐ्เคฏ เคจเคนीं เคนोเคा. เคเคชเคो เคेเคตเคฒ เคเค เค
เค्เคा เคाเคฐเคฃ เคोเคเคจा เคนै เคि เคฏเคน เคाเคฐ्เคฏ เคธเคซเคฒ เคนोเคा
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